I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and have been living with him for 1 year. He has 2 teenagers, has been married twice before and when the subject of marriage comes up, he either says "We'll see" or "we're working on it"!
What does this mean? He is 41 and I am I personally have never been married and would love to be married one day! Share Share this post on Digg Del. Ask him - he's the only one who knows.
Only you can decide how long you're willing to wait for marriage with this guy. Forcing the issue may end the relationship but I'm sure you're aware of that risk. Hi Banditkitty, I got married when I was 20 the first time. It didn't work out, and we drifted apart, eventually divorcing.
I knew I was too young to not get married again because I liked the idea of settling down, and having someone to always be with 2 years single and dating, I decided I wanted to be with someone. I was 28, and when I met my now wife, she was 34, and never married. She had been in long relationships that went nowhere, and by this time she knew what she wanted.
So on our first date she said to me and I quote" Look, I want Gun shy men dating divorce know if you are interested in getting married and having children" not asking me to marry her, but seeing where I was at that point in my life. After I took in what she said, I then thought, here is a woman who knows what she wants and does not want to waste time getting what she needs.
So I said, yes, I would like that. And she said, o.
Of course 3 months later I proposed, and within 10 months, we were were married. Just celebrated our 10 year anniversary.
We have two beautiful, healthy daughters; one born when she was 36 and one when she was My point to this whole story is this; if you know what you want, don't be shy in going about getting it. My wife is very direct by nature, but I have to say, that I really respected her for that. If it scared me away, then it would not have been meant to be. I think your boyfriend rightfully so is a bit hesitiant to go through marriage again after all divorce ruined me financially, and he went through it twicebut probably does not reflect on his feelings towards you.
Look; I am sure you to be married, and have children. It's still possible at 35, but if you end up in Gun shy men dating divorce long term relationship that does not lead to marriage, you may be cheating yourself out of one of life's greatest gifts. That's just my take on the issue.
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